Writing an Online Dating Profile

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You're ready to take the plunge and begin online dating, but writing your online dating profile can be intimidating. After all, your profile introduces you to a perfect stranger, taking the place of an in-person first impression. Luckily, you don't have to be Shakespeare to write a profile that shows off your impressive personality, interests and charm. All you need are a few tips to get you started.

Online Dating Profile Tips

Be Honest

There's nothing like reading a dating profile advertising a tall, dark and handsome stranger, only to meet his short, ugly alter-ego. You owe yourself - and your date - a profile that honestly represents who you are and who you hope you'll meet. Be truthful when you fill out your statistics, such as height, weight, occupation and marital status. This sets the foundation for a relationship that's based on trust and actual interest, and weeds out potential dates who are only interested in dating a particular "type".

Be Brave

With so many online dating profiles to choose from, potential dates are looking for something that catches their eye. Don't be afraid to show off what separates you from the rest, be it your unusual profession, crazy hobby or most personal ambition. Adding personal details that reveal your unique side is a great way to guarantee your profile stands out - and getting noticed is the first step towards a great date.

Be Specific

Maybe you have specific relationship goals such as marriage; perhaps you're more interested in a casual summer fling. Either way, specificity in your online dating profile only narrows the field of potential dates - and eliminates unreasonable expectations from the get-go. If you're searching for your life partner, say so - you never know what you might find.

Be Brief

It's easy to ramble on and on about your desires and identity, but a dating profile isn't a novel - it's a quick way to determine interest. Put your most important "selling" qualities at the beginning of the profile where they'll get noticed - and make sure your message comes across in as few words as possible. Remember, you have your first date to get to know your potential partner - the profile is supposed to pique interest and leave your potential date wanting more.

Be Real

It's tempting to try to inflate the image you present in your profile, but nobody is looking to date a superhero. Outlandish or egotistical statements ("I'm the greatest lover in town") may garner attention, but they won't gain lots of dates. Focus on what makes you a real, attractive person - and watch your dating life take off.

Be Ready For Anything

Ultimately, a successful online dating profile is only the first step on the road to finding the date of your dreams. Remember what online dating really is – a chance to broaden your contacts and meet someone new. Realistic expectations and goals will keep your profile readable and interesting – and prepare you for the experiences ahead.



 


Comments

That sounds like a tough situation, Onya. You might find more people to talk to at a teen-focused online dating site. LoveToKnow Dating has several suggestions for teen online dating. If you're not interested in finding a new love interest and would just like to talk to someone, LoveToKnow Teens has several articles on teen chat rooms, including Teenage Chat Websites and Free Teen Chat. Hope this helps!

-- Contributed by: Lorie Witkop

Hey my name is onya!I'm 17 years old. Right now I'm in a relationship but it is not going very well! I took her from my best friend. I moved out of my parents house for her and I get cheated on. Looking for somebody to talk to!

-- Contributed by: onya Harvey

If you're looking for love online, you might also enjoy our articles on Choosing an Online Dating Site and Online Dating Tips.

-- Contributed by: Lorie Witkop
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